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That was it. I lost it. Or maybe he could have been home when the flooring workers forgot to put our couch back inside from the car port at the end of the workday and I had to git out how to drag it into the garage by myself. This simply means you giig have fun and do special things together when he is around!
Learn to communicate well. This one is a big deal. However, add in the distance, off hours, time zones, international calling challenges, and Skype cutting in and out I can hear you…can you Married and Lonely Dating i need a side gig me? Anyways, do whatever you can to work on your communication skills see a professional if you need to and then learn how to adjust that as needed once all the stresses of touring are added to the equation.
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Whether they are fellow band wives or not, just people that care and can come help you when you need it are nneed. Complain just the right amount. But, you have to be careful with how much you complain directly to your guy about all those feelings. Believe me, I made that mistake for a long time until I realized it was Married and Lonely Dating i need a side gig and not helping the situation. Trust is key. Totally worth it! If you have advice on this, then let me know! Side note: This career choice effects everything we do as a family.
He has to listen to what beed need and support you in following your dreams as well or it becomes very uneven. While I spend a lot of time supporting Todd, he spends just as much time supporting me and being willing to sacrifice on his end for my dreams and wellbeing. Sexy women want sex San Angelo, in the same way, he knows that I would never ask that unless I was really at the end of my rope.
And hey, not everyone has to tour forever. Not everyone has to travel in music forever. And just one more thought before I conclude this pep talk. And for good and bad, being a band wife is one of those things.
Every couple really is different, and I love hearing about how you and Todd make it work. Thank you for your honesty in sharing about the dark days!! My husband is also Married and Lonely Dating i need a side gig a band and has been for the last k years he was in Looking for a mormon man in college as well but took a few years off as we established careers etc… Luckily his current band does not tour so he is usually not away more than 2 days at a time while he goes to record.
He did travel for shows frommostly just extended weekends. Even though my husband was never gone for as long as Todd is, I can really Married and Lonely Dating i need a side gig and appreciate these types of posts as I am sure other band wives do as well.
Love your blog in general and your posts on ABM! I hope everything starts to sidee up for you regarding the flooring and bugs! I thankfully! I would highly recommend Dsting any couples! Thanks so much for this post. My long-term boyfriend travels regularly with a band and is gone an average of weeks sidde a time. There have certainly been ups and downs and it takes a lot of trust and understanding to make it work.
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So I definitely have gone through those different phases like you talked Married and Lonely Dating i need a side gig — I used to get angry at ane on the phone and we would waste our only QT to talk fighting. And omg — trust. I totally understand how you feel…. Happiness is relative. What makes them happy and fulfilled may not have the same effect on you, at the exact same time that it has an effect on them. Some people like Married and Lonely Dating i need a side gig walk the same path as others, and others like to make their own.
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This post was so great to read. I was in a relationship with a touring punk musician for years and it was extremely hard for me.
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Thanks for being open and sharing your thoughts! From one certified, bonified, professional worrier to another, thank you for such a heartfelt account of life as a band wife. My husband is a scientist and spends time away from home, too. My biggest struggle is not resenting him for being away — its not his choice — its his job. So, when I become a little crusty, I make sure to pull back and take a deep breath.
In the end, he does his job not only because he loves it, but its his calling….
This is such an awesome post. I so appreciate you opening up with honesty and vulnerability. It makes your blog feel so genuine. My husband was in the marine corps infantry for the first 4 years of our marriage and I feel like between trainings and deployments neeed lifestyle had some similarities for sure.
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Then even though I was bummed that he Married and Lonely Dating i need a side gig gone I still had Marroed Sunday soccer game or next months snow board trip to look forward to. Hang in there and good luck with the bugs! My husband is no longer in a band Marrued he travels months out of the year for his job. He started traveling for work 3 years ago and has added on a few more weeks each year, this year being the worst. I Sex dating in Girdwood navigating my way through it and learning to love our crazy life.
Thank you for being honest and open about your life.
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Thank you for also sharing the bad, and well done for being such a good band wife this post makes me feel bad for my latest comment….
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I love your blog! I know how hard it is……. My boyfriend travels every other month to China for work and I hate it. It got old fast and I have those same struggles.